The black theme of Life

The dark truth

Sometimes it gets quite difficult when heart and mind don’t agree simultaneously. At that point of time, it is obvious I do get really confused on what should I do! Last few months, I have been thinking about the open relationship thingy. If you would ask me a year back on my personal point of view, I would probably say it is pretty damn tough thing to be managed. We can’t assume on everything that we face every next day. Life does not provide any glance of future moments. We can think, we can wish, and we can try to make things happen. But, it just like a poker game whether your luck does favor at times and at times not.

I have been watching several relationships with various cultural or may be rituals point of view. Every relation has its own spark and complication that can't be matched with other. I have heard many people saying that relationships are same like water and air! But everyone knows on what color can add into the water and how air flow can be changed at any point of time. Being into teenage life, love is like just an excitement that everyone wants to be with at least once! After passing out the teenage group, the excitability gets a new pace, and life seems to be turned around in other ways completely! Being an adult, every type relationship does also get way too much confusing and complicated. It gets difficult to make a perfect decision on what will be the next step after being into a relationship for years! In Asia, relationship is not yet being accepted in a way that everyone prefers to be. Unknown rituals and complicated religious issues make it more like a stress than heaven! Having strict movements against open relationship, things do get extremely difficult when you have at this point of time! In Asia, you can’t expect to get accepted through your parents or others while having an open relationship. It seems to be a curse if you do not have any idea on how to manage things by your own.

Being into an open relationship, it gets really clueless for you on what can be done in that particular moment. You just can't control over anything you see and experience on each day. I have seen people in open relation where age difference is way too much! But, I get moved when I see their mutual understanding is so high that no one can create any break being a partner of each other. There are and will be number of people who will raise their voice against this type of relationship. For me, it does not matter whether you are having open or typical relationship as long as you are HAPPY. Life can’t be running like a machine that most people do in their whole life. I am doing the same thing for like years, and it makes me feel really sick when I think about the outcome of what I am doing! Life is not only about lifting up others expectations as there should be so many things to brighten up the color of life.